I think I have explained my stupidity before, I haven't approached her because I was stupid, don't you make stupid mistakes which you later regret

The other 2 pictures are from the movies my group made, and the girls are accidentally cought on tape. When I saw the movies I made few screenshots to have pics with her group also, maybe someone will recognize one of her  friends.

if i were her, i wouldn't trust you. why don't you forget about all this and find a girl in a normal way.

Let the girl decide if he finds her 

How can we judge him if we don't know him?

There are different ways and reactions to them. Also, where there is will, there is a way.

I wish U luck man. Tough task.

If U find her,let us know.

if i were her, i wouldn't trust you. why don't you forget about all this and find a girl in a normal way.

Let the girl decide if he finds her 

How can we judge him if we don't know him?

There are different ways and reactions to them. Also, where there is will, there is a way.

I wish U luck man. Tough task.

If U find her,let us know.

All I can reply is a big "THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING!!!"

I will try what you said with facebook but I had no other option, I only have that picture "in bikini" because we were on summer vacation..........that's just a coincidence. If I had another one be sure that I would had use it.

Use advice that Nikodijevic gave you, to crop the photo. Take that bikini photo, open it in Paint for example, select her head, and crop it. That way you will have photo only of her head, which will be more decent, especially if u plan to send chain letters.

To modify the photo is easy, it's already modified on this forum because the whole pic contains me next to her

To send a chain message to many people on facebook I don't know how. Only to friends, to group of friends...etc.

To send a chain message to many people on facebook I don't know how. Only to friends, to group of friends...etc.

Well, I think this is the only way to do it... send it to all your FB friends, explain the situation and kindly ask them to forward the photo and the story. Many people don't like chain letters, but I guess if you really want to find her, you will not be too worried about it. 

Btw, time heals all wounds... I am sure you will be less upset about her in a week.

I agree with Acketa, the girl will decide if she wants to meet him.

Crisarghot, you have made big mistake by announcing her photo in the bikini, it really isn't polite... but i see guys gave you advices how to correct that  And I think this is the only mistake that you have made!

'Obsessed' and 'stalker' are too hard words for the guy! If the girl says 'I am not interested' and he continues to bother her, then I agree, but this has nothing to do with stalking. He is just trying to FIND her. I would say that he is only in love   

Of course he will get over it (he didn't say 'I will kill myself if I don't find her!') and he is aware of that, but at the moment he is in love and he needs help. I am sure that many of you were in the situation that you didn't do what you were supposed to do, as Ivana said 'Give the guy a break!', he wasn't smart enough at the time to ask for more information!

I disagree that most of the girl would be mad about that, I think some would think that this is romantic act... The guy was polite enough to say 'please consult with the person you know from those pictures' so this doesn't sound as stalking.

I suggest if you can help him, do that... if you can't, don't be so negative 

Unfortunately I cannot help you, but I hope you will find her, and she will agree to contact you!

Good luck!

instead of further distributing her pictures, which i still find inappropriate, you should find out what travel agencies in serbia organized their tours to zakynthos at the time you were there. there aren't many possibilities, so that should narrow your search. maybe you could find a tour guide then, and show the photos to a few people who could actually know her, instead of putting her on display to the whole serbian internet. of course, maybe i'm wrong, maybe she'd like all the attention. i'm just saying that i, and the girls i know, would be repulsed with these pictures.

furthermore, as somebody has already suggested, if you use facebook, you should search all serbian profiles and try to find the account with her picture, instead of sending her photo to others. the fact that you cut yourself from the photo and left only her doesn't help you leave the good impression on her. i understand this is important to you, but you have to be smarter if you want her to see this as romantic, not pathetic act.

I am sure you will be less upset about her in a week.

wanna bet ?

rayuela - I already contacted the serbian guide (a she) through my romanian guide, both willing to help and understanding, I don't know what, but they've been willing to help me if that is saying something to you. Anyway the serbian guide has over 200 tourists per week and sadly only remembers her vaguely so the only thing I know 100% is that she's from Serbia. They've also searched for the trip lists with no luck.

Now let me explain myself on why I chosed this method:

The ideea with the travel agency is good maybe they have a database and with some...more luck I could get her name...or 4 names (as there were 4 girls in the group). Even if I have her name, I still need to contact her somehow and considering that she maybe (there is a high chance) cannot have hi5, facebook, myspace profiles I've put my money on this:

Maybe with her picture on few high interest forums, maybe someone who knows her, will surely tell her "Hey girl, there is a psycho with a picture of you on the net, what's with that ?" and she will be curious, look into it, think and decide if she wants to play my game or not. Is she will, Thank God, my mission has ended with a Happy End!....now let's get to know each other. If not, the mission ended with a Sadly End!, the main character died ! (my paranoia, aka obsession, love... plays the main part)..but ended

So I need a final, one of the two, far far far.....incomparably more tending to have the Happy End !

So, how many of you really understand what I've just said ? Bokas, you have passed the test, you actually do !

bokas - Really....Truly.....Thank you!

rayuela - I already contacted the serbian guide (a she) through my romanian guide, both willing to help and understanding, I don't know what, but they've been willing to help me if that is saying something to you. Anyway the serbian guide has over 200 tourists per week and sadly only remembers her vaguely so the only thing I know 100% is that she's from Serbia. They've also searched for the trip lists with no luck.

so you gotta be kidding. 200 tourists per week doesn't mean anything. she didn't have to remember faces of all of her tourists, she didn't have to remember anything at all. she could've told you from which cities were the tourists at the exact tour. and if that's not against the rules, and she is willing to help so much, she could give you all the names, and you will have something to start - maybe 200 names to search for in the limited numbers of cities. i think you could get her contact in a few days, without all this charade. what is the name of the agency? maybe i could tell you in which cities they operate.

and considering that she maybe (there is a high chance) cannot have hi5, facebook, myspace profiles I've put my money on this:

Maybe with her picture on few high interest forums, maybe someone who knows her

so your assumption is that there are better chances that some of her friends will see the pictures on a few forums, than  that she has the profile on facebook or myspace? very itneresting. this forum has less than 2000 members, and only facebook, only in serbia network more than 100.000. i'm sorry, but i can't see any logic in that.

It's not just this forum, as I have a serbian friend helping me.

I am now trying what you said about finding the city but it's not easy as the guides don't keep old trip lists. Even so there is a big chance that she just not have a profile on facebook, hi5, myspace. On Hi5 I almost searched all 12 000 girls from Serbia aging from 18 to 28. I will see if she can give me some cities anyways.

Also I've considered your critics, advices and I now use this pic to find her.

edit: pic removed, as it is no longer needed

Interesting story, like in some detective movie from 70s 

My question: We saw the girl, but can we see your picture too  ? Aj sad da vimo...

Where are you living? Which city  ?

My little help... You can post here on http://www.elitemadzone.org/f2-MadZone It is the most visited forum in Serbia (maybe and all ex-yu region). Very big forum, but there is a space for everyday themes where people`s asking everything. Most of them are very high educated, so English would n`t be a problem. And they like such themes like yours. You will find more more more people then here (this is small community by quantity but big with quality  ), so you can try. There is also one big forum http://forum.krstarica.com/ mostly the same story. Wish you luck.

I hope administrators will not feel offended because of commercials of other forums (koji su tankoza u turizmu  ). Sorry because my English too.   

Thank you very much Marklar !!!

I really appreciate your help.

I am from Bucharest, Romania, you can see pictures with me on my hi5 profile http://arkgoth.hi5.com/ where you can also see the entire picture with lady X

I must say that I may be one of the luckiest men alive. I HAVE FOUND HER!!!

My guide emailed me yesterday after some hard looking 4 girl names which she thought to be the names of the 4 girls in her group.

I've searched hi5, MySpace, facebook for those names...only ONE name had 6 results on facebook, that's all. I couldn't see any picture with her so I sent to all 6 friend invitations. After that.....my luck came into action and got a message from one of them...that she thinks she remembers me from Zakynthos Now my invitation is accepted, it's actually HER!!!

THANKS ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND ADVICES!!!! ESPECIALLY THE ONES WHO DIDN'T JUMPED TO CONCLUSIONS  .gif' alt='::'>

u gotta be kidding!

congratulations, and good luck! tell us how it went

Thank you !     

I won't forget about you, don't worry !

tell us her name!!!

We want to add her as a friend too

After all we helped too 

stalker... do u think on going PRO!!!

good luck

tell us her name!!!

We want to add her as a friend too

After all we helped too 

stalker... do u think on going PRO!!!

good luck

I will if she won't mind

THANKS !

I can't belive!!!! Great job! 

You really are the luckiest guy! I am glad she remembered you and she accepted your invitation. Now, you are on your own 

Now, you are on your own 

Oh, well... If you need some advice on romantic approaches...  

Sincerely, congratulations.

well, congratulations i'm glad i was right about the most efficient strategy now just don't tell her about the photos on the internet and remove them from wherever you put them and everything should be fine

if anybody else needs some love advice... 

I already told her and she didn't mind at all.......see that not all female minds are the same ?

good, so she deserves you